No matter how much we motivate ourselves. We lose our Motivation and excitement at some point. therefore, everything backs to normal. Most of the people are forced by their habits and go with their perceptions. It is very difficult for a person to change their habits. We need to understand this, that our habits decide the main factor of our Success & Failure.
First of all, we need to know, what habit we should change
These 6 habits will make you effective.
We become what we want to be. it is our self-choice that make us good or bad. Means, We are responsible, this word consists of RESPONSE ABLE
A response is done in two ways.
Reactive & Proactive
There is a lot of difference between Reactive or Proactive people. Reactive people always blame others. Don't take responsibility. They react to the situation without observing the problem & always think about a solution & give priorities to feelings.
But Proactive people observe the problem & take action according to the situation. They take 100% responsibility. And think about conditions & take action according to the situation. Focus on things can change instead of things which cannot. Proactive people give priority to values. Nobody can hurt you without your concern,
Reactive
- I failed just because of you.
- I'm not developing because my boss doesn't motivate me.
- It is Sunday I don't feel like to read books.
- How he ignored me!
- Why she dumped me...
- My skin complex is so dark.
- I can't do that.
Proactive
- It is a holiday, better to cover more topic.
- Definitely, he got angry with me, I will talk to him.
- I will be a success person by working hard.
- It okay to be different.
- If I don't then who will.
Put First Thing First
We all have daily goals that we set every morning, But a single distraction can easily take our lots of time. We scroll down to social media, Watch videos or spend some time on TV while we have to finish some important task. it is a very common habit which wastes our lot of time So, you should deal first thing as priority basis.
Begin With The Ending Mind
Suppose it is your funeral, what do you suppose to others to think about you.? In what kind of words they will remind you.? All the achievements you got really make you memorable. were you doing all the things that would you like to say about now! if you want to be a person who achieved a lot... So are you working on it NOW? could you say you are.? Ask yourself how many things you must have to achieve before dying. and start building habits on it as earlier as possible. before it will get too late.
SEEK FIRST TO UNDERSTAND, THEN TO BE UNDERSTOOD
We never get late to judge someone. When someone shares their problem with you. We convey the solution instead of diagnosing their problem. We can freely say you don't understand, but we ourselves hardly understand their feelings & think about WHAT they say. instead WHY they say what was the feelings behind... So, if someone shares their problem with you, do not listen only intended to reply. Rather try to understand & let them realize that you understand. if you use this habit authentically no doubt people will understand you.
Think Win-Win
It is not necessary for you to lose anybody. This is human nature that it is important to lose someone to their success.
either or We shall not get it if he gets it. which can hardly be beneficial for a long time. This is known as scarcity mentality. Instead of this, we should develop the Abundance mentality to think everyone has something, so now in any situation dealing with others try to make win-win situation Which benefits everyone
Learn well to Live Well
Learning is supposed to be one of the most effective habits that perform an iconic role to become an effective person, Reading books boast up our knowledge, thoughts, level of mentality, it gives a positive impact to any individual which would be a great thing as a person. you can also read Fun Facts. or simply go Unbelievable Facts that sounds more relatable habits to most of us.
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